9 simple strategies to stop worrying

Sure, scrolling through your social media feeds can help you feel connected to the greater world. But research suggests that obsessive or excessive use may lead to stress, anxiety, or even depression. 

In part, that distress may be caused by constant comparison. When all you see are happy family photos, glamorous selfies, and beautiful vacation pictures, you might begin to feel inadequate, or fear that you’re missing out. The effect is well-documented among adolescents and young adults, though it can affect anyone at any age. 

Fortunately, taking time away from social media can help you worry less in general—once you get used to being less tethered to your devices. Start small, by cutting down before bedtime. Turn your phone off 30 to 60 minutes before you turn in, and then stow it in a separate room. Switch to a more relaxing way to end the day, like listening to music or practicing mindful meditation. (More on those later.)

You don’t have to be Shakespeare for your words to matter. Journaling can help you express yourself, identify issues to work on, and devise ways to address your troubles, helping to alleviate stress and manage your mental health. Even a quick writing session can calm your nerves and boost your well-being. 

Unsure of what to write about? The American Psychological Association suggests that writing down positive or grateful feelings may help free you from a negative mindset.

Mindfulness is a state of awareness of moment-to-moment experiences, and it can be as simple as appreciating the warmth of the sun on your skin on a spring day. When you’re mindful, you experience life as you live it. This awareness may help lower stress, control overthinking, and improve focus. 

Some research suggests that practicing mindfulness consistently—especially when used in conjunction with other stress-relieving techniques—may help ease anxiety and depression. For example, a randomized controlled trial published in the Journal of Medical Internet Research in 2020 found that an 8-week web-based mindfulness virtual community reduced symptoms of both mental health conditions in undergraduate students.

Aside from the physical health benefits, working out can ease mental stress both in the moment and over the long term. That’s partly because exercise promotes the release endorphins, “feel-good” brain chemicals that can help relieve pain and improve your mood. What’s more, multiple studies have found that both cardio and strength training can work to reduce stress symptoms—often significantly—in people with anxiety disorders.

For an extra mood booster, take your workout outside. Research suggests that spending just 5 to 10 minutes doing light outdoors activity—think gardening or walking—is all it takes to sap your stress.

Research shows that meditation activates the ventromedial prefrontal cortex and the anterior cingulate cortex—two areas that keep worrying and anxiety in check. How does it happen exactly? Each deep breath you take generates brainwaves that let you relax and mentally move away from things that are bothering you. 

New to meditation? Many people start with online meditation videos or meditation apps. If you need a hand finding your breath or developing a routine, visit Sharecare’s DrJud.com website for more resources. For an immersive, evidence-based mindfulness experience, download the Unwinding Anxiety mental well-being app. You can also ask your healthcare provider to recommend a practice that might work for you, such as lovingkindness.

Aside from feeling groggy and cranky from too few ZZZs, a sleepless night can also make you more vulnerable to anxiety. In fact, just one bad night of sleep can significantly worsen feelings of anxiety, depression, and anger. The effect feeds upon itself, too—excess distress can then contribute to poor sleep.

Anyone’s sleep can benefit from practicing good sleep hygiene, which helps you feel fully rested and less worried. Start by hitting the sack earlier than usual. Doing so gradually may make it easier. Keep your bedtime routine, even on weekends. Remove all distractions, avoid stimulants before bed (chocolate counts), and ensure your room is dark, cool, and quiet. 

If you feel frazzled, listening to some music can help release stress. It can also boost your mood and may even help alleviate physical pain. Upbeat tunes are linked to more optimism, while a slower tempo can quiet your mind and help relax you, according to the National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health. Calming music may especially be helpful before bedtime.

A good belly laugh can relax your blood vessels, increase endorphin production, and even lower cortisol, a stress hormone that suppresses the immune system. All of this helps tame tension and reduce stress. So, next time you feel overwhelmed, turn on a funny movie or head to the internet for a quick, funny video. Even better: Get together with a good group of friends you’re sure to laugh with.

Coloring books aren’t just for kids anymore: Research shows that adults can get some therapeutic value from them, too, even those who experience anxiety so severe, it sends them to the emergency department (ED). A small 2020 study published in Academic Emergency Medicine found that ED patients who colored reported lower levels of anxiety two hours later compared to a placebo group. 

“Coloring can be a pathway to experiencing flow, which is the merging of action and awareness in a focused way that leaves no room for worries and concerns outside of the immediate activity,” says psychotherapist Julie de Azevedo Hanks, PhD. 

Not interested in coloring? Dr. Hanks explains that any repetitive, creative activity—like knitting, for example—can help calm the body and lower stress.