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What questions can I ask a child who is disclosing abuse?

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When a child is disclosing that they are being abused, limit questioning to only the following five questions if the child has not already provided you with the information:
  • What happened?
  • When did it happen?
  • Where did it happen?
  • Who did it?
  • How do you know them (if the relationship of the abuser is unclear)?
Do not interrogate the child by asking leading questions such as
  • Did this or that happen?
  • Were you at school?
  • Did your uncle hit you on the leg?
This can make it harder for your child to tell you about the abuse.

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